I’ve been blogging on and off since 2005. When I first began blogging, there weren’t that many people really doing it outside geeks and tekkies and writers. Of course, writers. When you have this need inside of you to write, pretty much any medium that allows you to unfurl your words into the world is a good one. That’s why I began all those years ago. You would think that as long as I’ve been doing it I’ve figured it out. Ummm, nooooooooooooo.
When I first started a blog and excitedly sent the link to my friends, at least 75% of the email replies were “What’s a blog”? Can you imagine how you would look at a person nowadays if he asked such a stupid question?
I remember in those early the days my blog was an online diary because no one as really watching or listening. I was bummed at the time, but now I realize the freedom I had to learn about the medium in near silence. I kept that one for a while and then shut it down. I took a break and then started a new one with a different focus. After a while, I grew bored with that one and shut it down because I had changed and the focus I was so passionate about at the time became much less important.
When I made the decision to start showing my visual work as an artist/designer, I began a new blog for my business. My poor little blog suffered terribly because I was writing and maintaining another one with my current business partner and her former business partner. I poured my heart and soul into the company blog. The business changed, and I’ve since been maintaining this one.
Now I’m at that point again. The precipice of a cliff I’ve been at before and have always chosen to jump, ie. shut it down and take a breather. Why? Blogging is work. Yes, there are a lot of craft bloggers and others out there whom are making money from their blog and spend a lot of time maintaining it, but I’m not one of them.
I’m not sure if the general population actually gets how much time goes into great blogs…lots of time spent on things that happen long before they’re published all pretty and perfect. Time spent thinking up subject matter, time spent making the projects or art or vignettes or whatever, time spent photographing them with good lighting and great angles, time writing it and then time promoting it. Many of the best blogs these days are no different from magazines, and that’s what makes them successful. We love pretty pictures and free information. Who doesn’t? Sure the advertisements are annoying, but that’s how these hardworking folks get paid for all that time and creative energy. Advertisers who want our eyeballs.
Facebook changed blogging and so did Twitter, as they introduced the concept of microblogging to the world. Engage an audience in 140 characters or less, and that includes a shortened link to a pretty picture. Speaking of pretty pictures, let’s look at how Instagram and Pinterest are changing blogging yet again.
What I’m saying is that the cliff I find myself at is so familiar because with each new generation of social media, what I first began seven years ago is starting to feel very old school at this moment. The question I keep asking is this: If I’m this busy in my life right now raising a family and working, aren’t there millions of other people in the world feeling the same way? Aren’t they trying to juggle their social media along with their lives and feeling just a wee bit frustrated as I am?
Sometimes I envy my husband. He’s a brilliant computer geek with a great job where he does programming and puts out fires in the office. He’s never blogged. He doesn’t Facebook or Tweet. He is as tekkie as they come, and yet he doesn’t buy into the whole sharing your life with strangers movement. His work is so cutting edge that sometimes I think he drives a time machine to work, and yet his style is decidely old school. Man, I love him.
While I sound like a curmudgeon, please don’t mistake my musings. I don’t plan to shut down my blog. It’s never been one to get a ton of comments, but my stats show it’s not like the early days when I was the only person to read my blog (other than my mother, of course). I’m just re-evaluating my time and asking questions. I tend to process things out loud and then let it simmer.
What do you think? Do you blog? Do you enjoy it? Do you think you would lose business if you went to microblogging only? Be honest, do you really have the time to read other people’s blogs the way you used to? Inquiring minds want to know.

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Lots to think about indeed. It seems like it’s a timely thing to bring up since so many of us are pondering the same thing too. Happy to hear you love love love blogging. The joy in our journey is just SO important, correct? Have a terrrific day and thanks for taking the time to leave a comment!
Alice — great comment about chosing to spend time on the one aspect of social media you can control. Can I quote you in a future article on blogging. I’m serious.
Sigh, Kim, I hear you and being worn out with everything. Been there! Thanks for being honest and telling me that. It means a ton to me. I’m not worn out right now, but after I left my newspaper job to be am at-home mom for a while, that was exactly how I felt about writing. I was so burnt out that I just stopped all together for about 6 months and took a break. Sometimes, that is the best personal medicine we can give ourselves. Good for you for recognizing it and allowing it to be!
Great answers Sharon. I think what you are saying is still very, very valid. There is a lot of good stuff to be found on blogs. I will be sure to check yours out next! have a lovely day.
Hi Jen, I came over from Terri’s blog. yes I blog and yes sometimes I wonder why. But then I think of all the wonderful people I have met through blogging, all the armchair travels they have taken me on, all their creative endeavors, even their sad times when venting helped,the happy wonderful times,etc. I have learned so much from blogging and I try very hard to give back. Sometimes,yes, it is hard but mostly it is fun. I do read a lot of blogs and have made many great friendships. Some I have met in person and some I never will. But the friendship is there. So yes I do blog. And now I have found your fantastic blog!
I blog with joy … But this summer I just plain got worn out with EVERYTHING … So I’m on a blog break. I realized that if I was blogging with obligation and not with joy it would be better not to blog at all. I don’t think I will quit my blog because the comments merry go round is not one that I want to get off of … I enjoy leaving and recieving comments … Making the rounds. Facebook is too short and to the point I guess … And too temporary.
I blog for the enjoyment of it. I’m pretty old school myself and so I don’t twitter, and while I have both a personal and business facebook page I rarely go there. Honestly I’d rather spend that time with family and making jewelry, so I chose to work mostly on the one aspect of social media that makes me feel happy. With facebook and twitter your conversations seem too short, where a blog allows me to talk all I want.
Hi Jen,
I was just referred to your blog by another friend, Terri Kahrs, and am thinking a lot of the same things you are! I have a couple of blogs going and love love love doing it, but yes, it’s is a ton of work! Of course, we’d all like more people to read our writing, so I’ve been following Jeff Goin’s writing site and, sheesh, all this building a platform, tribes and a dynamite about me page, ESO’s and everything could honestly take a 24 hour day. I have a day job, too, as a literacy coach. I love to write and I love to make art. I want to share it, but I also need to have a life that I’m present in. (My hubby, too, works in computers and is anti facebook, Twitter and the whole social media thing. Maybe it’s because he looks at computers all day.)
Maybe it boils down to what your ultimate purpose is. . .
Hmmm. . . lots to think about.
Shari
Karl’s that’s a great answer for why you blog and a perfect motivation for doing so. It’s one of my reasons too. Thanks for commenting.
Thanks Ruth. Those are all nice things to hear and great feedback for me personally and for a future column I’m writing, especially the part about selling. I also liked how you said it felt like we were having a conversation. Pretty cool. Thanks for taking the time to leave a comment.
Hi Jenn, I don’t always comment but I do always read your blog. I think the reason is that you are friendly and down-to-earth. You tell us about your books and how they are going but you don’t give us a sales pitch. I find that so many blogs I had signed up for (and unsubscribe from after a few tries) turn very “preachy” and are there to sell their products. I like that you write what is going on in your life on that given day and it makes me feel we are sitting at a table over a cup of coffee chatting. I do have a blog that I started to do a blog hop, don,t do either anymore.
Jen, I am learning jewelry making right now. I want to blog and connect with other jewelry makers. Also, I am hoping to use it for some income. If you have any more questions I would be happy to answer the best I can. Karla
Patsy. It is fascinating to see how people in different cultures live. That’s wonderful you have more than enough time for your crafts and blogging your passion.
Good info
Nadine. I’m happy you enjoy it so much you keep 2 going. That us truly awesome and inspiring. I think every blogger thinks why am I doing this when no one reads so you are not alone there. Just keep at it as long as you love it.
Jeanie you are right in so many levels. I love your blog and how you walk that balance between art and life as well. Thanks for the lovely and wise insights, my friend!
Wow Laurie what an amazing comment! You made me feel very special
Today and I really really appreciate what you said. I’m truly honored and it’s times exactly like this that makes me think ok, this is time well spent. Btw, I hear you on the craft products. I’m right there with you as my addiction too. Oh well it could be worse. take care!
Thanks for your input Karla. Just curious when you say you will
Be starting one soon. Why? What’s motivating you to want to do one? I’m planning to write my next column on a related topic so I love gathering info. I do agree with you about getting older and being more sure of oneself. Again, thanks for taking the time to comment.
I don’t blog but I am going to start soon. I have a lot of blogs that I peruse. Some I read completely, some I pin for reading later. I don’t do twitter. I do facebook, but mostly to play scrabble
I think as I have gotten older I have become more willing to discard moderate interests for the ones I am passionate about. I guess that is the one real advantage to getting older (ugh, 48!). You find the ability to do that; you are less interested in what you “should” do or what you think other people think you should do. If it is a time drain and you aren’t getting much pleasure out of it, dump it. Or blog once a month, etc. There are a lot of blogs that I follow that only post a couple times a year. When they pop up in my RSS feed or email it is like revisiting an old friend. I don’t understand those that chose to record their every meal, location etc.
I love to blog. But sometimes I think to myself why am I doing this? no one reads it.? I even have 2 blogs ,one on Crafts and the other Cooking recipes. I will keep on blogging and posting things that I have made.I feel like its a little job for me to do and share just incase someone stumbles upon it.
I love reading other bloggers new and seeing there tutorials they have to offer.
Nadine
Hi Jen. I follow a quite a few blogs, some religiously and others I will look at the pictures or not, but I do it on Google reader. It is faster than opening each one. If the writer has said something profound or has an equally profound giveaway, I will open it up to comment. I don’t blog. From the get-go it sounded way too much like work to me and I decided to opt out. But, I am not trying to sell anything. I do believe that you sell more if you blog. I know this because I find that I gotta have whatever the blogger is selling which ticks me off because A. I need nothing more in the craft world — I have one of everything two of some and B. I KNOW better. I know they are selling but yet I buy. So I don’t know if this will help, but you are one that I read religiously (when you write and the fact that you don’t “over” write might be part of it) and you wrote something that was compelling today. I even did what I never do which is to read what the other commenters wrote. That rarely happens. Good luck figuring it out…
Hi Jen, yes I blog and I do enjoy it but like you said it takes considerable time and energy and there is some self imposed pressure to keep it going. There are some great blogs out there and I really enjoy reading the ones that are art related, especially about thought process….you know what makes an artist tick and why they make the design decisions they do. I do get a little tired of the blogs that constantly try to sell me something and yes I totally understand that’s how some artists make their living. I love your blog because you have great balance with what you write …you share your art and throw in a little something about your personal life, the ups and downs….it lets me get to know the human side of you. So I hope you don’t stop.
Thanks for taking the time to leave a comment Jan, and to give such helpful information on teh fact that you do still read blogs and still find them inspirational. That’s great insight! Have a wonderful weekend.
HI!!! Yes I blog, but since I blog because I want to sell “Jesus”, I’m not really worried about my stats. I am actually super amazed at the really successful blogs out there considering that in the US you don’t have helpers and you have to do your work AND work in the home as well. I wonder about how you all get to do SO much! I live in the Philippines and I have a wonderful helper in the house who does ALL our housework. When I get home from my work in the office, I have so much time to do my crafts, blog, paint, etc.I try to make time to read other blogs and comment and get soooo guilty when I am not able to return visits that i decided to give away an ATC to one “winner” a week picked from all the visitors who left a comment. I know how HARD it is to leave comments!!! Soemtimes you write something long and it DISAPPEARS!!! How frustrating is that! Plus the verification is such a pain too! Hope you don’t have any! Patsy from HeARTworks and papemelroti
Boy do I understand how you feel! I do wish however, that I started blogging back in 2008. I probably did some “blogging” but it was called “whats new” on my website. I do enjoy it but feel pressured to keep active at it AND to have photos and not just rambling. That is the hard part. And I wonder, is anyone interested in this? I do read other people’s blogs BUT I feel sometimes that my time would be better spent! I can sure use up a whole lotta time reading others blogs and just surfing. It is inspirational I have to admit. I have learned a lot! So, I will probably continue. Take care Jen! I don enjoy your blog!
Jan